Respecting the chat simply means not flooding, spamming or being a general annoyance.
Respecting each other means treat others as you'd like to be treated.
There is a rating system, so as soon as you finish some games and have been assigned a rating, you'll be able to select opponents of a similar playing strength to your own, you won't get any easy wins, but neither will you be crushed mercilessly.
Or, you can challenge a higher-rated player and try to kill a giant!
All we ask is that you extend your opponents the courtesy of finishing your games.