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While it isn't necessary to use a paid site to find someone who is boyfriend material, Murray told me that chances are the people who are paying to use a site are more serious about finding a potential mate.
"One of the things you're getting with a paid app is a more serious pool of daters," she said. This may seem like a no-brainer, but Sambrosky explained to me that many women ignore the simple red flag that a man has said he's "looking to have fun" or "looking to make friends" in his profile. " On the other hand, some men do come right out and say they want a relationship.
Scott Valdez, the founder of Vi DA (Virtual Dating Assistants) told me, "A guy who is looking to commit will put more effort into the image he's presenting on the dating app.
If he's highlighting things like his career and the importance of family in his profile — and his photos don't make you cringe — that's a good sign he's boyfriend material." Everyone wants to put their best foot forward, especially when it comes to dating, but if his profile is full of his accomplishments and everything he loves about himself, it might be a red flag.
As Reddle told me, "This would suggest that he is always on the lookout for someone new to chat to." A guy who is always looking for the next thing is definitely not what you want in a boyfriend.
On the other hand, a guy who isn't online all the time has other priorities in his life and is looking for someone who can fit into that life, which is a sign that any potential relationship might be a bit healthier.
While different apps utilize different interfaces, varying requirements for messaging, and range from free to surprisingly expensive, they do share one thing in common: it can be hard to spot both the red flags and the signs someone could be a great match, from the profiles alone. I spoke to online dating and relationship experts as well as people who work for different dating sites to find out how to tell if a guy could be boyfriend material, based on his profile alone.